coli and shigella, virus’ like hepatitis A and various kinds of intestinal parasites, so there are risks to it. “Making sure the outside area is clean but some people also would wash a bit internally. “Usually a shower is sufficient,” says Louise. “Take it at a pace that suits you and the other person.” But first up, it’s important to consider hygiene - as in, making sure the area is clean - and safe sex. Then, if everyone involved is enthusiastic about wanting to try it, she says it’s about going slow. So if you want to give it a go, how should you approach it? Sex educator Louise Bourchier says it’s like any kind of sex act, “the most important thing is consent and communication, making sure that people involved are feeling like they have a lot of choice in doing it.” As Dr Jay points out, “To what extent is this poking fun? To what extent is this using humour to deal with something that one might find uncomfortable or unsettling? I do wonder if these memes et cetera reinforce this unsettlingness.”Įven though it still makes some uncomfortable generally, it seems like the stigma is falling away and that’s a good thing. “On the other hand, I can’t help but feeling it’s sort of reinforcing that old stigma, that old association with homosexuality/feminisation.”Įspecially in the meme fallout around a certain Hottest 100 champ, it’s surely not all celebratory. “There’s been a sort of word on the street that it is a masculating act or it is empowering or something like that,” says Dr Jay. It seems to imply now (not unlike the reaction to DJ Khaled’s refusal to eat pussy) that you’re less of a man if you don’t rim. The big question ‘Do you even eat ass?’ or ‘What? You don’t eat ass!?’ Jay says it’s become a signifier of your manhood. There are benefits not just for the arseholes of the world but in regards to the changing nature of male sexuality and the prioritising of both partners’ pleasure. “Straight men aren’t afraid of being associated with a practice that’s historically been coded ‘gay’ and therefore feminising, and that might well be a good thing.” “I’d say it’s actually got quite a broad appeal.”ĭr Jay Daniel Thompson, agrees that the stigma surrounding arse eating among straight men has diminished considerably in recent times and points to shifting models of masculinity. “People of any gender and any sexuality can either be the person doing the licking or the person being licked there’s lots of flexibility,” says Louise Bourchier. Just picture yourself being Paige’s father.So for those of you who have any questions about how to give it a go if you’re anal-curious, The Hook Up enlisted the help of sex educator Louise Bourchier and Dr Jay Daniel Thompson, a researcher and lecturer in media, and gender and sexuality studies at the University of Melbourne. You think you’re having a rough day back at work from Labor Day. Here’s Flume’s girlfriend, Paige Elkington. These fans basically ran Burning Man with a fucking white board. Yeah, I think it’s safe to say you got the “best reaction” from Flume. Everyone around us was loving the white board and also wrote him notes. We had been using the whiteboard all week, but definitely got the best reaction from Flume. Flume was an amazing sport, we didn’t just get him to eat ass, we also got him to take his shirt off, take a shot, motorboat his girlfriend and we even got the girls on the art car to have a twerk off. We made a white board totem because we thought it would be fun to write notes and heckle DJs because it’s Burning Man. This all started because someone held up a white board in the crowd that said “Eat Ass” Safe to say some people live different lives than us huh? Flume is out here eating out his girlfriend’s ass on stage at Burning Man. I can barely work up the courage to ask a girl if she wants a drink at the bar. Remix some really good songs, hit play, and watch millions of people knight you as a god once you hit play. Fucking scrawny Zedd was seeing Olivia Culpo for a minute. So much so we’re doing it in front of thousands of people. The Eat Ass movement is still chugging along full speed ahead.
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